Friday, May 7, 2010

My Mom

My Mother's Senior Picture

With Mother's Day on the horizon, I couldn't help but take a moment to tell everyone about "my mom." The older I get (wait let's change that to the more mature I become) the more I realize what a remarkable woman my mother was and how extraordinarily lucky I am to have such an amazing woman for my mother. My mom was the youngest of 7 children (her brother just older than she was died as an infant), born and raised in the wilds of Nevada. She spent her growing up years in Ely and was a youngster during the depression, and a teenager during World War II. Both of these experiences as well as being raised LDS in the gambling, ranching, mining community she did, served to shape her character. A shy, rather reserved individual, she mustered up the courage to leave Ely at the ripe old age of 18, get on a bus with her bag and move to Salt Lake City, where she secured herself employment with an attorney in the Boston Building. She found herself roommates and lodging and started out life there. Her boss was a taskmaster, demanding, particular, and requiring perfection of his employees. (Wouldn't my mom have loved a lap top, Microsoft Word with spell check!) She spoke of the long tedious hours of typing, and re-typing and not making any mistakes; of longer than long days, over-time without over-time pay and of the sheer joy of my dad telling her boss, "My wife doesn't need to work, I will support my family, Anna is finished." My mom married quite young, just 19. She was the perfect wife and mother. She had her hands full with four babies in 4 years! She mopped her kitchen floor EVERY Saturday night, the last thing, after everyone had gone to bed. . .oh and did I forget to say that it was done on her hands and knees, because mops just "pushed the dirt around." My mom didn't learn to drive until she in her late 40's, yet she always managed to take us to church, fulfill church responsibilities, participate in the Republican party, be a faithful visiting teacher, a member of the VFW Women's Auxillary and more. She was an excellent housekeeper, a wonderful cook, she was thrifty, smart, her home canned food was beautiful, her flower gardens had no weeds. She supported my dad in his work responsibilities by attending social events,at the army base even though it was outside of her comfort zone. She opened her home to her mother and father in law as my grandpa had lung cancer. She cared for her mother-in-law for nearly 10 years. She was a widow at the young age of 52. She was a temple worker, she served a mission ie a proselyting mission in her 60's having both older sisters and younger sisters as companions, she was a beautiful quilter. She instilled in me the desire to "quilt" for my loved ones and carry on the tradition of baby quilts. She was a devoted faithful friend. She loved her children and was proud of her children. She was a beautiful grandmother. She was patient, kind, diligent. She NEVER spoke ill of anyone. She also died young. She taught me so much of what I know. The greatest compliment I could give my mother is that she had an undying testimony of the Gospel of Jesus Christ and bore that testimony to her children and grandchildren in word and example; and I was lucky enough to be born her daughter. My mother is an example of the influence of a faithful woman on future generations!

Sunday, April 18, 2010

Too Much!

That can sum up life for most of us I'm afraid. Perhaps it is also the curse of modern day life. There is just too much. We watch too much TV, eat too much junk food, stress ourselves too much, stay up much too late, sleep too much, sit too much, gossip too much, waste too much time, work too much, play too much, own too many clothes, have too much debt, . . . .and the beat goes on. My goal is to figure out how to take the "too much" out of my life. If you know the secrets of balanced living, share the wealth!

Sunday, March 21, 2010

Life in the empty nest - plus one!

The Empty Nest is NOT empty anymore!


March 9th our last missionary came home!


Even in the pictures there is a glow! Missionaries have that glow.
Don't ever lose it!


This was the quickest off the plane, get the luggage and on our way we've every had.

The newly returned missionary gets to hold the newest nephew in the family!
They both are georgous!!!!
Now what? Who knows? The best is yet to come!!




Thursday, March 4, 2010

Hudson - Oh Baby!




He's cute, adorable, beautiful 7 lbs 3 oz and 18 1/2 inches of absolute wonderfulness! Do I sound like a proud grandma? I AM! He arrived on March 2 at 5:51 p.m. He also has a bit of jaundice!


Hudson Cole is his name. His dad and mom think he is mighty special! So do I!

Sunday, February 28, 2010

"Promtings"


Today our lesson for RS was Elder Boyd K. Packer's talk from Oct. Conference, 'Prayer and Promptings' He is such an inspiring individual. He has such a gentle, plain way of providing us the gospel teachings. He has always been assigned the "sensitive" subjects to preach on and I have always been amazed at what a wonderful job he does. Our teacher asked us to think about our most recent prayer that was answered or our most recent prompting. Wow - so here is mine. After a very, long, long day yesterday I was exhausted. I didn't necessarily get up as early as I could or should have this morning as my poor body is just worn out right now. Dad was going to a ward conference and I was running a bit late. I grabbed my shoes from my bedroom and the prompting came to me, "Ere you left your room this morning - did you think to pray?" I was running late, but thought again and knelt down and said my prayers. As I sat in RS opening the hymn book for the opening hymn; "Ere You Left Your Room," I smiled. I so hate to sing that song and feel guilty that I had not said my morning prayers. Grateful for the sweet, gentle, prompting to take the time even when I am running late, to say my prayers.

Sunday, February 21, 2010

"It's nice to have a friend waiting.. . . "

Clara Olsen:
"You mean, you want to be buried with me? . . . well, I suppose it could be arranged."

Gertrude:
Well, I've always trusted old!" people, but I didn't trust you when you were 40 Clara

Last week was EOTS (Edge of the Seaters Theater Company) Valentines dinner theater. We really wanted it to be nice this year. Great food, good solid plays etc. We decided that doing 2 1 act plays may be easier to pull off than a full length play. In some ways that was true, in others it was NOT. Lynette and I did one of the plays, "Save Me a Place at Forest Lawn" it is the story of two octogenarians, best friends for over 40 years who while at lunch discuss life, the unknown fears of death, heaven and hell, and their personal relationship. Well, it was fun, nerve wracking and challenging. Yes, it was easier to pull off a 2 man one act, but the fear involved of only 2 of you being on stage and everyone knows whose line it is next was a intense for me. I was Clara Olsen, bossy, determined, always right (of course), know it all to Lynette's Gertrude, shy reserved, unassuming, yet the true example of loving and forgiving. At the end of the play, Gertrude asks Clara for a favor, "Take me with you Clara," "Where?" "To your mausoleum." "Well, it hasn't been built yet." "I know, let's make the plans together, let's arrange it all. It would make me so happy to know that when it's time, there will be room for me, that you'll be waiting." Clara is somewhat taken back, sums up the situation and the debt she owes her lifelong friend and decides there is no reason the two can't be buried together in her mausoleum. The last line of the play comes from Gertrude who has asked Clara to wait at the table for her while she goes to the bathroom prior to leaving. Clara assures her she will wait. "Oh, Clara, its so nice to know you have a friend, waiting." And it is! We had fun, learned some lessons of life, did a good performance, had wonderful meals and I'm glad I made the time.

Sunday, January 31, 2010

Welcome To My World

So is my house - - - -



S0 is my world - - -

S0 is my life!!!